Scapegoat
SKAYP-goht
The family member blamed for the family's problems. AKA Black sheep. Carries the family shame.
Seeking The Familiar
SEE-king thuh fuh-MIL-yur
The tendency of ACAs to recreate environments or situations that mirror those of their dysfunctional upbringing, often subconsciously, because it give...
Self-Parenting
SELF PAIR-uhn-ting
Similar to reparenting, it's the act of nurturing and caring for oneself in a parental role.
Serenity
suh-REN-uh-tee
The peace and calm that can be achieved through recovery. Breathing, present moment living.